What I'm Learning About Balance (and Walls That Breathe)
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Right now, I’m working two 12-hour shifts and a 19-hour shift every weekend. Not because I want to — but because that’s what it takes right now. I’m trying to build a business, keep a roof over my head, and not fall apart in the process. And somewhere in the middle of all that, I’m also in school… technically.
School hasn’t exactly been at the top of my priority list lately. I got three weeks behind trying to keep up with life — juggling work, my dog, and trying to build something that feels worth it. I spent a whole evening just trying to get caught up. And okay… almost caught up. I’m hoping my professor understands, though I doubt he will. But honestly? I’m not aiming for straight A’s here. I just need to pass this class. Give me a C… maybe even a C+ if the stars align.
And then there’s ZahZah.
He’s my peace in the middle of all the noise. My dog has never loved wearing his muzzle, but we’re getting there. He lets me put it on without a full fight now, but he’s all business — straight outside to potty, straight back in to get that thing off. No sniffing trees or exploring the yard. Just out, in, done.
On the weekends, while I’m working those long shifts, he’s off having a playdate with his girlfriend — literally the only other dog he tolerates. They’re adorable together, and he’s having the best time. It actually helps me focus knowing he’s not sitting at home bored or stressed. I do have a sitter who stops by to let him out during the day, by the way. I’d never leave him for 19 hours straight. He’s family.
Now, about those walls…
When everything feels like too much, I rearrange my art. I know that probably sounds silly, but it helps. There’s something really grounding about creating a space that feels like yours — not curated for a catalog, not designed to impress anyone — just real, lived-in, comforting.
🌿 How to Design a Gallery Wall That Feels Like Home:
1. Start with something that means something.
Not what matches your couch. Not what’s trending. Pick the print that makes you stop and feel something. That’s your anchor.
2. Don’t worry about matching.
Mix frames, colors, finishes — it doesn’t have to be uniform to look intentional. Some of the best walls feel a little collected, a little personal.
3. Let there be space.
Negative space matters. Your art needs a little room to breathe — just like you do.
4. Hang it how you feel it.
Grids are fine. But so are scattered clusters, leaners on shelves, or whatever makes sense to your vibe. There’s no rulebook here.
5. Add something unexpected.
It doesn’t have to be “art.” A pressed flower, an old photo, a ticket stub, a note from someone who made you laugh. That’s the stuff that makes your space feel like you.
Designing a wall might not fix everything, but it can give you a few square feet of calm — and sometimes, that’s enough.
So if you’re stretched thin, behind on school, trying to pass with a C and still show up for your life — I see you. Hang something that brings you joy. Pet your dog if he’ll let you. And maybe give yourself a second to breathe.
We’re all figuring it out.
Until next time,
Sarah + ZahZah